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Re: Please not again
Prayers sent, stay strong Steve . . .
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Steve,
Was your dad having memory,or dementia issues before the fall? Dementia usually doesn't come out nowhere. And if he is still in the hospital or some care of care facility, there is a medical phenomenon called "twilighting" where the elderly, even with no history or diagnosis of dementia, become very disoriented even hallunengetic, because of being in a hospital or treatment setting for more than 24 hours. I saw this with my dad and was scary stuff, but it passes in a few days. John |
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Very ugly day the man I saw today was mean, nasty and abusive. That man was not my father. When I disagreed to help him up (fractured back) and take him home he said things to me he has never said before. I know not to take it to heart, but it hurts none the less. This is not the man who raised me. I am at a loss. He is scared angry and mean. I pray for my fathers return
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Watching a parent or worse a sibling or God forbid a child struggle with health issues tops the list of life's greatest challenges. Unfortunately most of us if not all of us will experience some version of this in our lifetime. The best we can hope is there's not prolonged suffering for the person afflicted, their immediate family and friends. Stay strong for your dad, his actions while ill will never tarnish the love and memories you've experienced with him throughout your lifetime. Nothing will ever change that and you should find strength in that while looking over him. The ones who feel what you're feeling are the people who grew up in a GREAT family environment, my heart goes out to those who don't experience the sadness and conflict you're feeling right now. Your heart is in the right place as is your dad's, you should feel nothing but euphoria that you had that relationship with your father throughout your life. NEVER take that for granted. Hang in there, I'll keep you and your dad in my prayers.
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Quote; "The ones who feel what you're feeling are the people who grew up in a GREAT family environment, my heart goes out to those who don't experience the sadness and conflict you're feeling right now."
Very profound & truthful statement there Dakota. My heart goes out to you as well Steve. The temporary abusiveness, contrary to your Dad's nature, will pass as his meds continue to kick in. Have been there with my parents. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you and your Dad. May God watch over you both. Be well. |
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Prayers sent brother
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Prayers sent for a quick recovery
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My prayers are with your dad and yourself.met you a few times over the years on the star with Tom out of the a h.be strong bro and remember god doesn't give us more than we can handle...although it don't always feel that way.hang in.
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Sorry to hear Steve. I hope all gets well
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Hang tough Steve this isn't easy. We are all with you in spirt. Remember all positive things for the both of you. Prayers sent.
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