You know flyboy1, I have a habit of letting people know how I feel and not always being real nice about it also. After telling of one of these events to my mother inlaw , she said to me " Flatcreek one of these days your going to run into the wrong person" My answer to my mother inlaw was " I am the wrong person" I assume your answer would be the same. Maybe not the best atitude to have. Calm down a little, but don't stop letting people know how you feel. My mother inlaw also ask me why I confronted them, my answer, " somebody has to do it", to many people just let it go for fear that they may be dealing with the wrong person.
Happy trails; Phil